A Mahuri boy
: Now I am well qualified, achieved a professional degree, got job in a bank as
Bank PO, now I am thinking to get
married, I am searching a girl who would
be beautiful, educated, will stay with me & with my family. I used to
search girl mostly in face book, who belongs to our caste, and we have a Mahuri
matrimonial group also where I used to see every time if any girl’s profile
updated or not. Now in TV, Amazone
Company is showing an advertisement:” Ar Dikhao Ar Dikhao” just same situation
having with me. I used to send message to girls also in order to know whether
she is interested to chat with me or not once. Whether she is searching someone
herself or she will obey whatever her family says.
A Mahuri
Boy’s father: My son now became Bank PO, working with one of the PSU banks of
India. (Father should be proud to have such kind of educated son, no doubt). I
will search a good family girl for my son; girl’s family should be rich enough
to give us jewellary, TV, Washing Machine, Bike, Car & cash. Yes I will demand because my son is working
in Bank, and he is earning 6 to 7 lacs pa, in future he will earn more so the
girl who will get married him, should give us some hefty amount so whatever we
spend on my son’s marriage will cover all from them. Yes I want to spend on so
many things, because society what they will think, my son’s working in a bank,
earning so much. Even I have another son, even I have good business &
income source, if any girl’s father wants her daughter to marry my son, and
they need to bear such cost even our family having good status & rich
culture. Without good money I will not allow my son to get marry anyone.
A Mahuri
Boy: Yes whatever my father will say, that would be correct, whatever he will
say, whatever way he will show, I will walk on that way only even I am well
educated & qualified person. I can’t take decision and change my father’s
decision even he is wrong. If that girl’s father can’t arrange than we will see
another girl we have so many option in the society. Yes we will keep them in
hold also because why I will take risk if I would not get more than that what
they are offering us. I am a well educated fool Mahuri guy, I will go on my
father’s way and I also want to take dowry from my future wife’s father, why I
shouldn’t ask for dowry, I am a bank PO, earning a lot why to leave any money
and this kind of chance. And I would be happy if that girls having a
professional degree and we will both earn, I will enjoy with salary and we have
more fun. Even at the time of marriage, girls father would take loan, let him
take, who cares after marriage about their financial status, who is going to ask them how they would be
after marriage. I need happy, beautiful wife, money etc etc.
A Mahuri
Boy’s father: Yes once marriage get over, who is going to ask how girl’s father
would be, who care after marriage about their financial status, let them take
loan also, who bothers, if that father or brother want her daughter or sister
to get married my son, than they need to bear this kind of things, even we are
growing financially & having good business.
Conclusion:
That Mahuri boy still an educated big fool even qualified. Father by default a
hoarder of money. Girls should avoid & boycott these kinds of families.
Hi Shruti,
ReplyDeleteI am a born mahuri.
Mahuri caste is very backward while it comes to the matters of marriage and very narrow-minded. Why can't we guys learn from many good people from outside BIMARU states where in most castes no dowry is involved in their marriages. That concept itself is alien to them. And in fact wedding expenses are also shared equally among both the parties. 'rishta leke jana' is also done by boys side and not girls side like it is in mahuri. Because boy's parents are asking the girl's parents for 'daan' of their 'kanya'.
One needs to be raised intelligent to understand this and there is a dearth of such people.
I am very happy that I married a non mahuri so at least my future generation will think and act sanely and help eradicate dowry system.
I highly appreciate this blog. Kudos to you Shruti! May your posts be an eyeopener for my doomed people