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A Chartered Accountant & his dowry demand

कृपया अंत पैरा पढ़ें !!!!!!!!

"I had a dream to fly, I  had a dream to run, I had a dream to walk, I had a dream to roam, I had a dream to be always happy." But that was only dream. I have realized now, all are not equal to everyone. One of my friends was doing chartered accountancy course. We used to chat with her and used to share our activities, our happy moments. She was hard working, belongs to a middle class family, I think who has borne in middle class, are used to face many problems & they need to act based on the situations.

Well, life is full of uncertainty, when what will happen, no one knows. I realized that being an educated person not enough unless a good human not exist inside. I came to know about so many difficulties now a days a mahuri girls are facing who belongs to middle class or below middle class even she is educated, well settled with a good job. Mostly mahuri groom who are government servant, expect more dowry compare to other working professionals.

A government servant used to write a long essay when this topic used to come in exam, everyone will write against dowry system, but practically they seek, they expect more dowry in their own marriage.

Shame on those guys, who are well settled and having good earning source, but they expect dowry from his own marriage. Just keep remember “one mistake brought shame to all his family".

It was a guilty of everyone who see and support them, also who don’t stop others. Foreigners used to come in India to study about the dowry system, it looks like every problems having in India only. Poor to rich, everyone having their own story to say.

Dowry related violence still not stopped in India, if you are a mahuri, just check a recent case of a family of Jamshedpur, an woman was burned till the death, that criminal family also run away and hided somewhere. Even after such instances also, no one will change their intention until something really happen to their family members.

Yes I am here writing only against or only about Mahuri caste. I don’t care about other caste, I don’t care about others what they will fill but I am here to write everything. Because it’s true in every angle.

One-day I asked one of my male friend, how much dowry have you taken in your marriage, you know that day I felt proud myself, I felt proud myself as a mahuri first time, because I was not expecting that my friends didn’t ask any dowry in his marriage. I was very happy and I told him, really you made me proud and you have given me strength to my feelings. Really I proud him, he told only little much marriage expenses has been taken from their side as that we can’t deny and I also agreed that much is okay for everyone. But now a days if someone is a government servant, he used feel like so many mahuri girls are sitting for him. Now that time really gone for some guys.

Its’ my humble request if you are a mahuri and well settled or even working & earning good salary, don’t seek any money from your future father-in-law, let him give as per his wish.

Isheshe jada ar koi khusi nhi hogi ush father k liye.

 Aaj kal hamare caste se ladkiya dusre caste me sadi kar rahi hai, reason ak hi hai, agar ush ladki k family k pass paisa nhi hai to wo sadi karwa hi nhi sakta apne caste me, ladkiya baithi baithi umar nikal jata hai par sadi nhi hoti. Kuch to sharm karo.

Bat karne k waqt sab badi badi batey karte hai but jab khud k upar aata hai to , log muh chipate hai, kitni sharm ki bat hai.

Abhi hal ki hi bat hai, karib three ladkiyo ka sadi Marwari ghar me ho gaya, dekhne me sab sundar thi, but problem tha paiso ka. Ush ghar ka bap bhi ladke khojne nhi ja sakta or soch sakta jab tak unke pass paisa nhi hai.

Agar kuch acha kam karna hi, apne caste ko sabke najar me upar uthana hi hai to, khul kar samne aayo and kaho.

Ak ar bat mai likhna chahungi, hamare caste k ladko ko jab online hi mahuri ladkiyo ka photo dekhne mil jar aha hai to phir ar kiya sochne, phir to contact karna hi nhi hai, ladki ki photo to dekh li.

Kuch ladkia to padhi likhi hai, but chehra clear nhi hai, wo jitni bhi achi ho, dekhne me sundar honi chahiye, yahi sabki jarurat hai aajkal.

Aaj facebook me mahuri matrimonial ki free seva bahut chal rahi hai, ladkiyo k rishtey  k sath sath ladkiyo ki bhi personal profile ka link share kiya jar aha hai, but ush admin ko pata nhi hai ki, common sense name ki bhi koi cheej hoti hai. Din  rat na jane kitne log ping karte hai koi hisab nhi, jise sadi nhi bhi karni hai wo bhi number laga dete hai ki samne se ladki reply karegi.

Ushe admin ko sharm aana chahiye, khud agar wo soch nhi pa raha hai than konsi punya ka kam kar raha hai. Wo sochta hai ki, ak social media k sahare sabko ak kar lega, ish tarah k logo ko educated fool kaha jata hai, matlab “padha likha bewkoof”.

Jab koi privacy hi nhi hai ush jagah par, phir jitney bhi family apni ladkiyo ka profile share kar rahe hai, wo ak risk utha rahe hai, kinyo ki ladki ka photo to waise hi sab dekh lete hai, ushke bad agar pasand aaya than sabke sab ping karna suru kar dete hai, ar agar pic pasand nhi aaya than phir kuch karna hi nhi hai,  ushke bad ladki k family wale, ladko ko ping pr call kar Kar ke puchenge. Yahi sach hai, aap mano ya na mano.

Aaj ush facebook matrimonial ka admin ho sakta hai koi uche post me ho but, common sense nhi hai ushki, sab log badi badi batey karte hai but dhyan koi nhi deta. Ush matrimonial me kitne hi kam umar k ladke hai jinka bada bhai sadi nhi kiya hai, wo bhi ush matrimonial me publish ho gaya hai.

Reason to bahut hai ush facebook matrimonial wale admin k pass, kuch sach me social work k liye reason hai kuch apne phayde k liye reason hai.

Mujhe janha tak malum pada hai , wo khud apni marriage me achi khasi rakam liya hai, ak to unki umar chali ja rahi thi. Ab jab khud itne bade post me hai to , jahir sa bat hai, dowry demand to karenge hi. Main nhi bolti ki unko nhi karna chahiye, but sab logo ki bas ki bat nhi hai.

Sabki apni apni soch hai,  agar aap kisi k bare me ungli utha rahe hai to, pahle aap khud apne upar utha kar dekhiye and apne ko correct kariye. Yanha log badi badi batey karte hai sirf.

Mere facebook me itne sare friend request aa rahe hai ladko ka ki  kiya bolu main, aajkal ke yuva kanha ja rahe hai , bhagwan hi janta hai. Aajkal koi poltics me apna jeevan dekar , kawani uda deta hai, phir umar bit jane k bad, achi ladki dhundhta hai  sadi karne k liye.

Janha padhe likhe logo ko guide karna chahiye hamare yuvayo ko, wanha log ushe social group me jodne k liye karya kar rahe hai, jamha hausla badhana chahiye mahuri yuvayo ka, wanha unlogo ko mahuri ladki dikhaya ka raha hai.

Sab jante hai, kon kon padhai kar raha hai and kon kon kar sakta tha, but nhi, wo dusre ki kinyo madat karega.

Sahi  hai, mai to yahi sochti hu , kaise kiya hoga mahuri caste k logo ka. Log padh likhne k bad bhi, unpadh se bhi giri hui soch rakhte hai.